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# Shutdowns, TA Cuts & Parent Maths Fear | Times Tables Games

26 June 2026

Every week I ask my colleagues Riley and Owen to go and actually listen. Riley spends time on Reddit, Owen watches what teachers and parents are saying on X, and then we sit down together and I try to make sense of what we heard. This week the voices came through loud and with real weight to them. Three things kept surfacing, again and again, in different words but with the same underlying ache.

## The working memory wall

A number of parents this week were describing a very specific kind of stuck. Not the ordinary "my child finds this tricky" stuck, but a deeper, more frightening one. One parent wrote, "He has no working memory with multiplication facts, and even some addition and subtraction facts once he gets stressed about getting a problem right." Another described something that will feel horribly familiar to many of us: "She freezes and then can't access what she does know and then that becomes more evidence to her that she's just bad at it."

What strikes me about both of those is the feedback loop. The anxiety doesn't just sit alongside the maths difficulty, it actively makes it worse. The freezing produces more evidence, in the child's own mind, that they are failing. And then the next session starts with that evidence already in place.

One parent put it plainly: "My work is heavily math-based and this stuff is just intuitive to me so I get frustrated that what I think is a clear demonstration of the concept doesn't land for her. She gets frustrated too." There is so much compressed into that sentence. The gap between a parent's own fluency and their child's experience of the same material. The good intentions. The frustration that, however gently you express it, the child still feels.

If you are sitting with this right now, please know you are not alone in it. The anxiety and the working memory difficulties are real things, not signs of poor parenting or a child who isn't trying.

## The TA crisis nobody is talking about loudly enough

On X this week, something that has been building quietly all year started to feel urgent. A headteacher posted about losing two Teaching Assistants next term due to budget cuts and asked the network for EdTech recommendations that could genuinely keep SEND pupils engaged independently. A SENCO followed with almost exactly the same situation: three TA positions gone, a growing SEND register, and no clear plan for how to fill that gap.

A frustrated post from what sounded like a school leader said plainly that they were facing "the impossible task of planning the 2026/27 budget" and asked how they were supposed to support their SEND children without the human beings who had been doing it. A separate SENCO wrote asking specifically for times-tables software that does not rely on high-speed repetition, because current platforms are failing their autistic and ADHD students.

The teachers in these conversations are not asking for luxuries. They are describing a situation where the human support is being removed and they are left looking for anything that can even partially fill that space. There is real grief in some of these posts, alongside the practical urgency. These are people who care deeply about these children, working inside systems that are making it harder and harder to act on that care.

## The parents carrying their own maths fear into the homework session

This one hit me differently this week because it came up in so many forms. A parent on X admitted to losing their temper during times-table homework and then wrote: "I was terrible at maths myself and I feel like I'm passing the fear onto my child." Another said they hate helping with maths homework because it triggers their own childhood maths trauma, which then stresses out their ADHD child.

On Reddit, a parent asked, "Anyone else find it incredibly frustrating to teach maths to their kid?" and described a daughter whose arithmetic was poor and a home dynamic where the sessions were ending in tension for both of them. A separate parent wrote that their daughter "hated" the classroom technique of being called on for random equations from the times table, and pulled her out of the activity.

What is happening in these homes is generational and it is not anyone's fault. Many of today's parents learned maths in environments that were not kind to children who struggled. The timed tests, the public drills, the sense that slowness was a character flaw. Those experiences left marks. And now, in a moment of homework-table stress, those old feelings surface, and a well-meaning parent becomes, without meaning to, a source of pressure rather than a safe place.

The research being shared on X this week is pointing toward something important: that low-stakes, game-based learning can reduce the cortisol response in children and make maths feel less like a performance. That matters enormously for families where the homework session is currently a battlefield, because the goal is not just to get the tables learned. It is to stop maths feeling dangerous.

## A quiet note on what might help

This is exactly the territory that XTables Champions was built for. The scaffolded, pressure-free approach, no public rankings, no red-screen failures, no timers that punish children who simply need a moment, is not an accident. As our founder Gal Darrash says, "When I hear parents say they are passing their own fear onto their children, that is the exact moment I want XTables Champions to step in, so the kitchen table can be calm again."

If any of what you have read today sounds like your home or your classroom, I would genuinely encourage you to have a look at what we are building. You can reach us through the site. We would love to hear from you.

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I find maths homework really stressful myself and I think I am making my child anxious. What can I do? 

My son has dyscalculia and zero working memory for times tables. Will he ever be able to pass the MTC? 

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