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Signs in children include crying or emotional outbursts around maths, stomach aches before school on maths days, going completely blank on facts they seemed to know yesterday, refusing to attempt work, or becoming angry and defiant. It is not the same as being bad at maths. Many children with maths anxiety are genuinely capable with numbers once the anxiety is addressed." } }, { "@type": "Question", "name": "Why does my child know their times tables one day and forget them the next?", "acceptedAnswer": { "@type": "Answer", "text": "This is one of the most frustrating and confusing parts of maths anxiety, and it has a straightforward explanation. When a child is stressed, the brain releases cortisol, which interferes directly with working memory. Working memory is what your child needs to retrieve and use number facts in the moment. So the more anxious your child is, the less accessible those facts become, even ones they have genuinely learned. It is a temporary cognitive block caused by stress, not a sign that the learning never happened." } }, { "@type": "Question", "name": "Are timed maths tests and apps making my child's anxiety worse?", "acceptedAnswer": { "@type": "Answer", "text": "For children who are already anxious around maths, yes, timed tests and countdown-style apps very often make things significantly worse. The time pressure triggers exactly the stress response that blocks working memory. If your child has started using a timed app recently and things have got harder rather than easier, there is a good chance the two things are connected. Removing the time pressure, even temporarily, can produce a noticeable improvement quickly." } }, { "@type": "Question", "name": "My child has ADHD. Is maths anxiety more common in children with ADHD?", "acceptedAnswer": { "@type": "Answer", "text": "Children with ADHD are more likely to experience maths anxiety, partly because working memory differences are common in ADHD, and partly because the fast-paced, high-pressure formats of many maths tools do not suit how their brains work. It does not mean they cannot become fluent with multiplication facts. It means the approach needs to be different: lower pressure, more engaging, movement-friendly, and with enough variety to hold their attention without overwhelming them." } }, { "@type": "Question", "name": "What can I do at home tonight to help my child who is upset about maths?", "acceptedAnswer": { "@type": "Answer", "text": "The most important thing you can do immediately is take the pressure off completely. Do not push through the homework if your child is in distress. Instead, try having a very short, completely relaxed conversation about one easy times table, something your child already knows well, just to end the evening with a positive maths moment rather than a negative one. Over time, short, calm, win-focused sessions do far more good than longer stressful ones." } }, { "@type": "Question", "name": "Could my child have dyscalculia rather than maths anxiety?", "acceptedAnswer": { "@type": "Answer", "text": "Dyscalculia and maths anxiety can look similar and they can also occur together. Dyscalculia is a specific learning difficulty with numbers, affecting things like number sense, sequencing, and remembering number facts, regardless of anxiety. Maths anxiety is primarily an emotional stress response. A child can have one without the other, or both. If you have serious concerns about dyscalculia, speaking to your child's school SENCO is a good starting point. For either issue, removing time pressure and using a calm, supportive learning tool is the right first step." } }, { "@type": "Question", "name": "Will my child's maths anxiety affect how they do in the Year 4 Multiplication Tables Check?", "acceptedAnswer": { "@type": "Answer", "text": "It can do, particularly because the MTC has a six-second time limit per question, which is exactly the kind of pressure that triggers anxiety responses. If your child has maths anxiety, the goal before the MTC is not to drill speed but to build familiarity and calm confidence with the facts, so that on the day the questions feel recognisable rather than threatening. Rebuilding positive associations with times tables practice over time is the most effective preparation." } } ] } ] --- [ XTables Champions Part of the ESSTA Kids family ](/Welcome) [About Us](/About)[Rewards ](/OurRewards) Tips & Tricks [Games](/Games)Login [ XTables Champions Part of the ESSTA Kids family ](/Welcome) [Learn](/levels-and-progression) [Games](/GamesOverview) [All Games](/GamesOverview)[Connect Four](/connect-four)[Guess Who?](/guess-who)[Times Tables Bingo](/times-tables-bingo)[Snap!](/snap)[Play with Friends](/games/play-with-friends)[Play against Champion](/games/play-against-champion) [Every Learner](/times-tables-for-every-learner) [Adaptive Learning](/adaptive-times-tables-learning) [Schools](/ForSchools) [Lunchtime Clubs](/LunchtimeClubs)[SENCO Support](/SchoolSencoInfo)[Homework Setting](/SchoolHomeworkSetting)[Whole-Class Games](/SchoolWholeClassGames)[Level Matching](/SchoolLevelMatching) [Wellbeing](/wellbeing-and-safeguarding) [Pricing](/pricing) Log In / Sign Up [Back to all articles](/Blog) # My Child Cries and Shuts Down Over Times Tables. Could Maths Anxiety Be the Real Problem? 11 June 2026 If your child dissolves into tears the moment maths homework appears, or goes completely blank during a times tables test, you are not imagining things and it is not a parenting failure. What you are almost certainly looking at is maths anxiety, and it is far more common and far more real than most people realise. The good news, and I want to say this clearly right at the top, is that it is genuinely possible to turn this around. Not overnight, but with the right approach it does get better. I've been writing about children's learning for a while now, and right now maths anxiety is one of the most searched, most discussed topics I am tracking. When I look at what parents are searching for on Pinterest this week, terms like "how to help child with maths anxiety" and "maths anxiety symptoms children" are rising fast. And when I read through what parents and teachers are actually saying on Reddit, the same picture comes up again and again: a child who seems bright and capable in every other area, but who completely shuts down the moment a timer appears or a page of multiplication facts lands in front of them. ## What Maths Anxiety Actually Looks Like It does not always look like crying, though that is one of the most common signs parents describe. What I keep seeing come up in the conversations parents share is a much wider range of reactions: stomach aches before school on maths days, refusing to even pick up a pencil, going totally silent, or becoming angry and defiant in a way that seems completely out of proportion. Some children describe a kind of mental blankness, where facts they definitely knew yesterday simply vanish the moment they feel under pressure. There is a real physiological reason for this. When a child feels threatened or stressed, the brain releases cortisol. That flood of stress hormone directly interferes with working memory, which is exactly the cognitive function children need to retrieve and use number facts. So the harder you push a child who is already anxious, the less they can actually access. Drilling them faster does not fix it. In many cases it makes it significantly worse. **The single most important thing to understand is this: maths anxiety is not the same as being bad at maths.** Many children with maths anxiety are highly capable mathematically. The anxiety is the barrier, not a lack of ability. ## Why Timers and Leaderboards Are Part of the Problem From the parents we speak to at XTables Champions, one pattern comes up constantly. A child was getting on reasonably well until they started using a timed practice app, or until a competitive speed test happened at school. Then things unravelled quickly. This is not a coincidence. A lot of the most widely used times tables tools are essentially high-pressure assessment engines. Countdown clocks, red screens when you get something wrong, public rankings against classmates. For a child who is already a little nervous about numbers, that environment is genuinely harmful. The child stops associating maths with thinking and starts associating it with failure and humiliation. As our founder Gal Darrash puts it, "We built XTables Champions because we kept hearing from parents that their child had gone from nervous about maths to completely refusing to touch it, and in nearly every case there was a timed app involved somewhere in the story." I do not think most of those tools were designed with bad intentions. But the research basis for speed-pressure learning is genuinely shaky, and for children who are already anxious or who have ADHD, dyscalculia, or other neurodivergent profiles, it can do real damage to their confidence. ## What You Can Practically Do at Home Right Now First, stop the clock. Literally. If your child is using any practice tool with a countdown timer, turn off that feature or switch to something that does not use one. Remove the time pressure entirely for now. This single change can make a noticeable difference within a week or two. Second, separate practice from performance. At home, the goal is not to replicate the test experience. It is to make your child feel safe enough to think. Chat about a times table over breakfast. Point out a multiplication in a real-world context, how many wheels on five bikes, how many days in three weeks. Low-stakes, no audience, no judgement. Third, keep sessions short and finish on a win. Five minutes where your child gets five things right is worth more than twenty minutes of struggle. You are trying to rebuild the emotional association with maths, which means every session needs to end with your child feeling capable, not defeated. Fourth, let them move. For a lot of children, and especially those with ADHD or sensory needs, physical movement genuinely helps. Times tables while bouncing on a trampoline, clapping rhythms, walking and counting in multiples. Movement regulates the nervous system and that directly helps with anxiety. Fifth, name it and normalise it. Tell your child that maths anxiety is a real thing that lots of people experience, including plenty of adults. You are not weak or stupid for feeling it. It just means your brain has got a bit of a fright around numbers, and you are going to quietly fix that together. ## What to Look for in a Practice Tool If your child has maths anxiety, not every EdTech tool is suitable for them. The ones that help tend to share a few qualities. No countdown timers, or at least the option to turn them off. A visual design that is calm and uncluttered rather than flashy and chaotic. Some element of choice and play, so the child feels in control rather than assessed. And ideally, something that feels genuinely fun rather than an obvious thinly-disguised drill. This is exactly the gap we built XTables Champions to fill. We designed it around children who find traditional maths practice distressing, including children with maths anxiety, SEND needs, dyscalculia, and ADHD. There are no stressful timers forcing speed. The design is calm and SEND-friendly. And because we know children are not going to engage with something that feels like homework in disguise, we have built it around the kinds of multiplayer games children actually want to play. If your child only reluctantly opens a maths app but will happily play a multiplayer game for an hour, that instinct is actually the right one to follow. Engagement is the first problem to solve. Fluency follows once a child is willing to practise at all. ## You Are Already Doing the Right Thing The fact that you are reading this, looking for answers rather than just pushing harder, tells me you are already approaching this the right way. Maths anxiety responds well to patience, warmth, and removing pressure. It does not respond to more pressure. If you would like to see whether XTables Champions might be the low-pressure, genuinely fun practice your child needs right now, come and take a look at what we have built at [xtableschampions.com](https://www.xtableschampions.com). We would love to hear about your child and help you find the right fit. ## Frequently Asked Questions What is maths anxiety and how do I know if my child has it? Why does my child know their times tables one day and forget them the next? Are timed maths tests and apps making my child's anxiety worse? My child has ADHD. Is maths anxiety more common in children with ADHD? What can I do at home tonight to help my child who is upset about maths? Could my child have dyscalculia rather than maths anxiety? Will my child's maths anxiety affect how they do in the Year 4 Multiplication Tables Check? ## Ready to help your child? Join thousands of families using XTables Champions to make multiplication click. Get Started Free XTables Champions Game-based times tables for children aged 6 to 11. No timers, no tears. For parents, schools and tutors. 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